Friday, November 1, 2013

Accomplishments (Amy)

Moving and settling in take time even if you move across town, but moving to a new country and culture take an immense amount of time.  My brother told me years ago it takes about a year to find friends and activities that make life feel normal.  We have been in Cairo for three months today and it is time to celebrate the settling that has occurred.   

We bought furniture.   The school provided basic furniture for us, but we still had  three empty rooms when we arrived that were calling out for more.  Part of me wanted to settle in and a bigger part was still recovering from the work of taking down our Columbia house and the last thing I wanted was to fill up this one.  We love our flat, but part of the love is that it isn't ours.  Many families are being transferred out of Cairo and we found a family that was able to sell us everything we need, including an xbox so our children are not the only people they know without a gaming system.







It is also the little things that make life normal.  This week I added The State to my FB page so I won't miss Columbia headlines, I added the Modern Love column from the NYTimes, I added the npr app and now listen to that top of the hour headlines a couple times a day.  I was missing Lakshmi Singh.   I bring the The international Herald Tribune and USAToday home on the weekends so Saturday and Sunday mornings can be reading the paper and drinking coffee time.   The only news item I am missing is some good obits, but I bet I can find a website to add me to their list.

The other highlight of the week was the house across the street, somehow related to the French embassy, had a farmers market in their garden - bakeries, veggie guys, flowers,chocolates, Indian food, Thai vegetables they were all there.  It was a delightful 45 minutes of my life, I bought tons of food ans sweets.  

And last night we did something I could not have fathomed doing before this weekend - we had people over for dinner and we cooked the meal.  We had had someone over before, but ordered out.  This time we planned, shopped, pre set the table, etc.  it may not sound like much, but considering how impossible it seemed three months ago it felt like a major accomplishment.  Even better I tried two new recipes and they were excellent.  

The next big event in our life is my sister Susan visits for Thanksgiving and her birthday.  We are so excited to celebrate both with her.  I am also happy she can bring me a few things I forgot and/ or miss.

4 comments:

  1. Thanks so much for the insights...and the pix of your abode! Really is just great to see where you live and know you are okay! Elliot told Bonka about following a demonstration! Any pix of that???

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  2. Nice, so glad things seem calm. Your place looks great. Start collecting more art.

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    1. So happy to see you settling. Dinner company is a huge sign that all is well. I LOVE the outdoor area...beautiful blend of inside and outside. Peace and light. Jeannie (Russ and Ben send love).

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